You may find yourself looking at your girlfriend — completely innocent, say, picking out vegetables in the supermarket — and feeling judgmental, bitter and angry toward them and their past. Looking at your partner in this way is not a nice emotion to have, and I show you how to eliminate it, and your fears, in my book How To Stop Being Jealous Of Your Partner’s Past In 12 Steps.
It may not even matter, for example, whether they even enjoyed the casual sex they had in the past. In it I show you exactly how to overcome retroactive jealousy. It’s the most comprehensive retroactive jealousy cure available.
For women this could mean viewing their choice of partner as “questionable.” i.e. Of course, these are by no means hard and fast rules, and it’s entirely possible for men and women to interchange these emotions.
For example, I once viewed Emma’s sexual behavior before she met me as promiscuous, but I also questioned her choice of sexual partner during this phase in her life as well.
As a quick test to see whether this is the case, imagine for a moment your girlfriend once had sex with your favorite actor or musician.Now on to the second key emotion which is fueling your retroactive jealousy…Besides flinging up repetitive images of your girlfriend’s sexual past, retroactive jealousy ocd can also make you see your partner differently, through the eyes of judgment.Part of the reason why you’re suffering from the condition is because, consciously or subconsciously, you’re looking down on the choices your partner made in the past and the activities they indulged in.For men, this often means viewing your partner’s past sex life as “slutty.” i.e.how many partners they’ve had, what kind of sex they had, etc.