You'll get a real rush from dating a guy who never interrupts you.Or, if he does, he immediately notices and says sorry.Also notice when he naturally wanders into your mind, but instead of engaging with or becoming attached to these thoughts, simply notice their presence (like a quiet observer) and get back into the moment.The key is to avoid dwelling and shaming yourself as you move toward emotional freedom.Being able to passionately talk without being cut off is borderline orgasmic.2.The dreaded ~silent moments~ are actually fucking wonderful. LOL, this one will drive you nuts because you know when *you* get quiet, it’s 100 percent intentional passive aggressiveness designed to make the other person slowly crumble. He truly, genuinely is just floating in his own world for a hot second.4. The chatterbox floodgates really open when he has access to emojis and time to think before he speaks. You have to really ask him about himself, otherwise you might miss some big stuff.
If your intention is to turn him into a friend and keep him in your life, create distance by avoiding flirting, date-like situations, and contact that is too often or too intimate.It would be unrealistic to say you won’t be tempted to contact him, win him over, and try to change his mind.However, if he is not into you, it is best to move on.You will get protective any time a guy implies your man’s quietness is weakness. His sex life is, as Ron Swanson would curtly say, “epic and private.”14.But then you’ll remember that lots of men think lots of arbitrary crap is masculine, like overly-hoppy craft beer or wearing boat shoes with socks. He shows his love in way more practical, personal ways.